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    <p>My new laptop (the Sony VAIO) is only a couple of months old; all my 
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    have problems. First, the tech support person was in <em>denial</em>. &quot;You 
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    remarkably like the Iomega Zip drive &quot;click of death&quot; problem... and he 
    agreed. At last, <em>acceptance</em>... It's supposed to be back from the 
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